Just realised wife of 12 years is having a MLC

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Hi guys I really need your advice, I just got my copy of DB which I plan to read tonight. I do however have a big chat scheduled for tomorrow.

I know W is going to ask me to move out again. I do not want to, especially while
She continues her affair. While I am planning to stick to sandis 37 rules and to stay calm and not engage, I do obviously still need to stick to my guns on various points. I think I should stay in the marital home and possibly even the bed. I do think I need to point out she is having an affair, so I don't see why I should leave, or is this not a good idea?

Please guys I really need your help to deal with this! I am planning on booking a call for tomorrow with the coaches but that will be too late for this chat and I am terrified about doing the wrong thing and making things worse!