I agree with the above Kgirl. Go have fun! You are only young once. Explore , go out, enjoy your life.

It sounds like your H. Has committment issues. That means he can't committ to yes but he also cant committ to no. Be careful. There is a thing called the final curtain call. Meaning once the divorce is about to go through and there is no pressure ( pressure he created within himself not your fault) he may start to question things and try to get back in again. This would of course only last until you let him back in and the. He would feel pressured again and the cycle would repeat for as long as you allowed it. Keep your guard up.

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.