I agree RD. Not too bad.....you weren't sobbing and hanging on to your W's trouser bottoms as she tried to leave the house. My main concern for you is if 'that' - ie a day like yesterday becomes a 'way of life' for you. It isn't easy to detach when your W 'partly' wants to be with the family and partly not.

So, I would be inclined to proceed with great caution and zero expectaction....but you know that already!

Sorry to hear about the bowling humiliation - I can only get a score if those side bars are up!

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus