The brief infatuation was wonderful, walking on air really, so it seems I am still able to love. That bodes well for the future, possibly even with my new, softer wife, though I doubt it.
Yes, EE is great, and I have chosen to invest time and energy into it. A good many of the people there come because of R problems, and it seems to help them. The continuing, open, caring support you get really helps me see and live better (e.g. the talk with my d16 was encouraged by EE principles).
It is good to hear from you too - you are a beneficent presence for me -