Hi Susana. If your H is wayward, he's going to make plans and not include you, and maybe not tell you until the last minute. Not very nice - but reality for you - at least for now, and possibly for a while. I think the answer is, not to try and set a boundary on this, but make your own plans and he can join you if he wants to. And if he doesn't? Well, you'll just go out and have a lovely time anyway.

Your wording sounds like you are still 'together' and would be the kind of convo you could have if that were the case - but your H has checked out of the M, remember...


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus