Calibri (3)

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Calibri, I'm so sorry that you are going through this. It all just went down so quickly. I am sure you must still be in shock. Ugh...I remember that feeling and it is like the breath has been taken away from you. Purely dreadful.

Pink had some great suggestions and I hope you will take them on board. So much of this journey for me has been about learning to comfort my own self. Early on I read a book that helped me understand that this is actually an important relationship skill - if we can comfort ourselves then we don't place so much burden on our spouse/marriage. So from there I gave myself permission to splurge every once in a while on something to make me feel good. And I feel so much better for it.