Devastated Husband; Need Advice...Part 2

[TLEE86]

Ugh. not a good day. I feel like I am being used and W is just all over the place. Her sister FB'd me and told me W is posting all kinds of pictures to OM's FB wall. Nothing of them two, but of him and his kid, his kid and OUR dog, and just [censored] like that. I don't know if I should just tell her that it hurts to see that, and worse when other people are the ones telling me about it because OM clearly blocked me from his FB..

Her sister is saying in her opinion, that W doesn't know what she wants. She wants to be with OM but isn't happy and is continuing to reach out to me. This is of course all mind reading from her sister's POV. But it makes sense. I don't know how W can be texting me all this [censored] and calling me all the time and tells me she's moving out, but then continues to carry on doing all this other crap. Idk what to do. Should I tell her it bothers me she's posting all this crap?

Its been said over and over, but again, W seems to want all the perks of being married without being married. Yet DB coach still advises to be very friendly with W and keep up the contact. IDK. I feel like [censored]