Thanks SS, Squiggy, Karma, Vapo and all who stop by. Your advice is very helpful to me right now. I am trying to detach. H is out of town for work this weekend so that helps. Today my MIL offered to watch the kids at her house while I went out and got caught up on work (still not quite caught up). It was nice of her to have them though. I definitely needed a break. This is all very, very hard but it helps to know I'm not alone and that this such a caring, supportive place.


Me: 38
H: 43
Kids: 2,4
T10 M6
BD: 1/14
11/14: H moves out