H is will be in Brazil by feb 1st. He will be at my family's town and I have no idea if he is planning to visit them. He is so out of reality that he believe my family is all happy with all what he has been doing to me and the kids. I know H will have a rental car there, so he is probably thinking to visit them. We will see.
It is a business trip but the OW won't be with him. She went back to France. And yes, I have a confirmation that the woman I tough is exactly the one.
I think I am not doing so good but I am not doing so bad as well. By one hand I feel really bad to be rejected, replaced and I think about their romance and how happy H is making love with her. By other hand, I feel I do not deserve this, I am an honest woman, always have been. I am caring and I value family a lot. I am not ugly, not ignorant, not stupid. I work hard and I like to have fun. So, I think I deserve better then all what he is forcing me to go through.
Life is short and I don't want to spend my crying for someone that does not love me anymore. I am looking forward to resolve my situation with H and then move forward for good. Give myself a chance to have at least happy moments. I know that slowly I will get there. I love myself.
I am sorry that you need to get to this point. I feel it's not fair with you as well. Now, you need to resolve issues that you did not ask for. But, maybe the best thing is to look at your situation and see how you can be hurt financially and try to at least have that side of the story well resolved.
I know it socks, but I saw too many cases that people wait too long and regret they did not think about the business side of the marriage. Hopefully things will go smooth for you and also for me.
How are you GAL going? Mine is not much these days. Was just overwhelmed with so much going on is these last two weeks.
As soon as I am done with this legal side of the process then I can relax and plan some new activities for myself.
