Jefe, when we first started dating he pursued me. Like insane crazy! (Too bad he was married and I didn't know it)

He would tell me I was beautiful and sexy and literally be ALL OVER me 24/7 and if I forgot to say "I love you" when ending a phone conversation he would be upset.

He used to be "vocal"in bed, telling me how amazing I was and that it had never felt so good before..... After the twins that stopped. He will day I love you too, if I say it first but I don't say it anymore.

I don't ask him to call/text me when he is going to be late but I have had a conversation months ago where I said that during our marriage I would have complained a lot less about him being late if he would just take two seconds and text me.

My personal opinion is he has an addiction problem (pea love addiction)
This is affair #5 in his life (not during our marriage)
He has a family history of drug/alcohol addiction, that is why he has never even had a drop of alcohol. He previously had a gambling problem but has not gone to a casino in over 5 years.
He won't admit this/get help so I am just waiting for another affair.......


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction