Ganb8te 4 - Putting on my giraffe ears

[gan]

Thanks, Zelda, for your kind words. I stopped by your thread the other day and had something typed up in response but didn't hit submit. By the time I came back you had an update. Will head on over soon and check out the latest.

Sometimes I feel that there are so many similarities in our sitches, I can't offer advice as I am too close to the situation and am not confident I am on the right path in terms of R. Can only suggest things that helped calm my mind a bit...