Thank you Sandi. Is it bad that I keep hoping she will text me just so I know she realizes I've stopped and represent some kind of interest in hearing from me? I don't even know what I would say if that did happen...I'm guessing I need to ignore it or at a minimum keep it short and unemotional. I realize this means I'm thinking about her too much which is opposite of what I'm going for and I really have made a big effort in that regard.


M: 44 W: 45
Married 26
Together 28
D: 22, S: 18, S: 9, D: 7
S: 12/2013, seperate houses
OM revealed first 10/2013, stopped seeing him
OM revealed 1/2015, been going on for quite some time