I read other sitches here where the LBH is having good contact with the wayward W. Going to lunch... family time... good interactions.
HP, you may or may not have been including me in this group, but it's true. We do have a lot of pleasant contact, lots of family time. But it doesn't change anything. He still lives in his own apartment, we still shuttle our child back and forth, he still is breaking his fidelity vows. When he knocks on my door, it's with every intention of leaving in a couple of hours.
Yes, it's probably more pleasant my way than yours. But it doesn't change the end product. So hang in there.
