Hm ya, if these feelings come back at all is the question. I mean people think love is gone, but it's false. I read if love once really existed, it's never going completely away. It's just covered. But once we cared for someone that much, we just close our heart over it. It makes sense. And sometimes the love doesn't fit in our lives anymore and we just can't be with the other person anymore,...it just doesn't work out. But IMO when you are married, it's a long way to find this out, bc we made a life long commitment and we can't just give up like our WAS are. Question of course is how long do we have to try??? I don't have an answer for that.
To work on myself, my character... I hope therapy will help me..it's hard to get over yourself and the emotional immaturity by just reading books, but it helps. And accepting and loving myself, for who I am!!!. GAL...a complete one, where W isn't included and doesn't have to be.
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Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15