Good for you, jess. I hope you went out and had a good time. Now do more of that. Don't expect family and friends to get involved -- it would just push him further away anyway, because he'd think you were behind it. Just go about your merry way and have fun. I'm sure he'd feel differently if it were YOU coming home at 4 a.m.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!