thank you Train, I just have to stay strong. I am really running through a ton of emotions, at one moment i want to divorce her and give her what she wants because i know she will soon see who and what the OM really is. then there is that fighter in me that wants to hold onto what i love and fight for her and be strong until she sees her errors. so many emotions coming and going its tough to digest and focus. lol... anyone have any ideas to cope besides GAL. cause at this moment i cannot GAL!