Sandi, I did not fully understand what you wanna tell me Well I don't expect reconciliation when she realizes things. It won't change a thing unless her feelings for me came back. That's the only thing that would matter in a reconciliation. The next steps, take care of myself. This is the ONE AND ONLY solution to all my issues. I need to emotionally mature. I think that is my problem. I read an extremely good article about it. I'm not an emotional mature person. My W thinks that, I believe it. And I gotta become a complete person, love and forgive myself. Big part of why our M broke apart, you can't have a fulfilling R if you are not in peace with yourself.
Wish I could post the link to the article here, it fits into many many WAS cases here!!
Last edited by Complex; 01/31/1504:47 AM.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15
