Db'd after W D me in 04 remarried W in 07 DB again

[Jbird]

My funds are low right now so I'm doing the best I can for GAL activities. I had a good long talk with my mom over the phone with no talk about W. Also talked with my son while he was driving home from work. Yesterday I used messenger on FB to talk about old times with a friend from high school.

I think I need some time by myself to GAL, where W takes care of SND20 and I get out. She is a sweetheart and I love spending time with her, but she tells W evertyhing we do so there is no mystery about what I'm doing. I also think it would remind W the effort it takes to keep SND occupied, satisfied, safe and cook some meals for her.

Last night I was working on my framing equipment in the garage and W sent me a text, "I'm sleeping in the bed." (meaning the bed I sleep in) So last night we slept in the same bed, but tonight she is sleeping on an air mattress in her office again.

We had to decide who was paying what bills that are due and she made a comment "we will be okay, ahh or I'll be alright." She paid to much on one of her credit cards and forgot the automatic withdrawal coming out on the 1st, if I wouldn't have told her the rent check she wrote would have bounced. I have handled all finances since we remarried because we both wanted it that way. Since she stated she wants a D, she has opened three new credit card accounts that is a total of six new accounts opened since Oct 14.. The day after she revealed the D I opened a checking acct of my own for my royalties to be automatically deposited in.

Sunday she leaves for two weeks to work out of town. I have her clothes already for her to pack.