Feeling lost

[jessm15]

Hi Ahoy,
Sorry about the late reply and thank you for the advice.

Everything has been much the same. I have not text him for 2 days which is good for me, I know that sounds pathetic because it's only two days!
Still living in the same house but he has worked nights so have barely seen each other.

Yesterday before he left for work he said he would be going to a friends for a bbq and drinks. I said okay have fun. I Took the kids to the park and McDonald's for lunch and then spent the evening at my mums.
He crawled into bed at 4am!!

Kids woke us about around 8am. I asked him if he was working tonight and he said no. So I asked if he could watch the kids so I could go out. He said "where are you going? Who with? Why do you want to go out?" Then he said "well see if your mum can watch them because I'll go out aswell" I said "so because I'm going out you have to?" And he said "Yep!"
We get out of bed and 10 mins later he says "okay how about if you let me go back to bed and have a sleep now I'll watch the kids for you tonight" I agreed.

Oh and this morning our son grabbed H's old iPhone box and I said "hey buddy that's Daddys can I have it please"
H shot up out of bed SO fast to see what was happening and I'm sure he thinks that our son had his phone. So I'm sure there's texts etc he doesn't want me seeing.