T2, I'm so very proud of you and your sons. Look at how far all of you have come. Your sons sound like they've adjusted well w/living w/you and I'm happy to read about their accomplishments.
T, you worked so hard on yourself and keeping your family together. You have so much to be proud of. Look at you...coaching your son on going to the dance. He had a wonderful time and I'm sure he'll go to another dance in the future.
You've been supportive, the lighthouse and yes, their rock throughout your wife's crisis. You are an excellent role model for them and they will never forget how you handled this situation. I'm only sorry she didn't wake up completely and come to realize what she was losing.
As for your lady friend, take things slowly and I agree, a thank you note should be sent to her xh. LOL! Life has a funny way of making things turn out well after so much destruction.
I'm very happy you came back to provide us w/an update.
