Mozza, Barry - yes, I understand re not pushing it on my H. He surprised me at the last meet up though. When I said the range of things I was doing to find my way through this (including books) he said "maybe you can send me the details of the book later". Not sure if that was a sincere request or not but I followed through and left it there.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014