I'm so sorry to hear about your brother IH - that's really sad news - my sincere condolences to you. It sounds as though you handled things fine with your W - and good that she is concerned enough to want to send a card too.

Take care, Toots.

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus