Sorry you're having such a rough time. Most people on the forum will advise you not to move out of your home. But there are pros and cons to actually sharing a home during a time like this. Sometimes a S can help. If your read some of the sitches on the forum, you'll get a feel for the range of circumstances people are in.
It's good that you have ordered DB. I made many mistakes before I read DB and DR. I found DR most helpful of the two - more up to date, and with specific chapters on infidelity, MLC etc. So, you may want to move on to that one next.
Incidentally, many of us on the forum are unsure whether our S's are simply having an A, or are in MLC. But best not to try and diagnose that....and certainly don't suggest to your W that she may be in MLC either. But, either way, the principles of DBing are the same.
When you first start on the forum, it can be a bit slow to get going....but the more you post and keep up with other people's situations, the more support you'll get. There are a fair few of us on here from the UK too.
Chin up. It's very early days for you. It will take time and will be tough - but you will get there. T :-)
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
