I'm not sure Edz. I think if I left it purely to emotion, I would wait much longer than this.

But the fact is, I have enough money for rent for the next 9-12months, and then I run out of cash, unless I earn more. So, I do need to take steps to resolve this. Maritally, we are pretty wealthy, and I also brought significant funds into the R. So, my current situation is a bit ludicrous really - particularly given the cause...

Problem is, I worry H will just say no to separation arrangements. Then I would need to decide, do I file or just live with the financial uncertainty for a bit. My Dad has kindly offered to help - but my parents shouldn't need to do that you know?

I haven't spoken to the L since I saw her a couple of weeks ago, so i'll wait and see what she advises.

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus