W showed up and gave me no warning. Said she felt betrayed for what I did to OM in reporting him. I was like I am not sorry about my actions. She said you just took the choice away from me and I don't know if I can forgive that betrayal. Hmm what to do now.
A good response to use here is "Everything I'm doing, I'm doing to trying to save our marriage." (or " . . . trying to save our marriage and our family," where children are involved). "I understand that you won't always agree, and I'm okay with that."
