Ok I will, I am leaving for a week today so will be a great break. I need me time without having her around. She did try pushing to divorce her, she told me to man up and divorce her. I Said, I am not filing becuase I still see hope. I said if you want the divorce you file I will not stand in your way. She had nothing to say. So I told her look in august I'm going to Oklahoma with or without you. The choice is yours so it seems we both have alot to think about and decide. And I left her with I know i have done things to push you farther away but there are things I am glad I did and pressing charges on OM is one of them. That's when I got thE I bet you are happy speach. And then the betrayal comment.