sounds like your finances are a lot more involved than mine (almost all our money went on s's school fees so we have lots of debt but no properties or large assets) I took on almost all the debt and so am struggling although I'm trying to re factor best I can.
Anyway not about me, with all this, are you doing ok emotionally with it? I think I picked up its a bit of a cause of apprehension, did the talk with the L help at all to settle it?
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015