Ok so she got very angry, telling me that I realised nothing and that I was being very selfish! Still what did I expect right? Sadly I had hope that she might have changed or stepped back from the abyss. She claimed earlier that she was going to a freinds house to stay on Saturday but I know she's meeting the other guy. She has gone to her freinds house tonight were she will doubtless enjoy wine and complaining about what a horrible person I am.

Still I must be positive I expected that response and she only packed for a couple of days. Plus I am back in my house with my children who I adore! Just desperate for my copy of DB to start making changes in my life. That mean I will be happy if/when she realises her insanity.

Am I right to move back in to work on this? Will she come back once the anger wares off and she's had her fun Saturday with him.

I also find it so hard to take, I'm in ok shape but this guy is 25 ripped physique and drives a new BMW.... All of which was more me when we met... But I have given up flash cars for a nice house and family...


T:13 yrs M:11
Me: 36
Her: 33
Living apart
Her having affair
She Asked me to move out 26th jan 2015
3 kids D13 S10 D10
D not mentioned yet