Thank you Edz...I will definitely go find your thread and read through it. I've never been me as we've always been us (since 16) so although she's pushed for and apparently found "her" or at least the first phase of her, I have not done this for myself nor do I know how to. I appreciate all of your feedback.
M: 44 W: 45 Married 26 Together 28 D: 22, S: 18, S: 9, D: 7 S: 12/2013, seperate houses OM revealed first 10/2013, stopped seeing him OM revealed 1/2015, been going on for quite some time
