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I agree, it will not serve you to know if he is there and with or without OW. Either way it is inappropriate for him to use the joint card for his personal stuff.

I would be factual about it, leave it until he is abroad and be cool about discussing your emotions:

H, there is charge on our joint card of $$$ for the Y Hotel. This is not a joint purchase and you should pay this bill, please pay an extra $$$ into our joint account to meet this when it is due. Please pay your sole expenditure through your own accounts.

I had exactly the same conversation with my H when he tried to put his golf stuff on a joint card. I got back 'sorry a mistake' and my response 'ok'.

I know golf does not equate to your H rubbish.

((((((Hugs))))))

Vanilla


Last edited by Vanilla; 01/30/15 06:00 PM.
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