I wouldn't say I'm thriving, but the feisty part of me refuses to let STBX's actions destroy my life and my inner Mama Bear is determined to minimize the negative effect on my girls.
I still feel washes of negative emotion pretty routinely. Yesterday - I was feeling a little insulted. I mean, seriously, I don't think being married to me should have been that miserable!
As time goes on - while I recognize I have lots to work on - I do realize this is more about STBX and where he is at in his life.
Did you ever make it to Divorce Care? I signed up for a session and was wondering how it was going for you.
