Ugghhh just as i was starting to doubt my decision i found a screenshot of a textmessage he sent to his AP2 today. Today! Photos etc get uploaded to a shared folder automatically and I guess he forgot that or forgot to delete it. It looks like they're still messing about though now just incidentally. Just hurts and p*ss*s me off. He's acting like he's the victim bc Im now actually planning to leave but really nothing had changed. He still leads a double life completely.
Me: 36 Him: 36 DD: 3y DD2: 1.5mo Together: 5y Married: > 3y D: April 1st '15 after 1y of affairs