My Story

[Joe46]

I am still reading Divorce Remedy. I am working on not being so controlling. Not always wanting to have things my way. I am giving her space. I am just trying to let her know that I am here. I am having a hard time with my 180's. In the past I have acted sometimes like I take her for granted. I have not been as supportive as I should have been. I have not listened like I should have. These are all things I am working on now. If I was to do a 180 from what I have been doing the past 6 months since she has changed, it would be different. I have pushed the relationship issues, snooped, accused her of an affair, became angry and threatened to leave and threatened divorce. Right now I am doing none of these things. I can see how they have made things worse. So I read alot. Pray alot. And concentrate on my kids. I am trying to be a better man for myself and hopefully my wife. I have to admit that I get jealous sometimes when I see other couples our age or older and they seem happy and still together. I would be happy if my wife would just come back to our bed right now. That would be a huge step in the right direction.