I wouldn't speculate too much...you never know what's in his head and it could just drive you crazy! Just state it clearly - "I'm planning a vacation in May and I need to know if you can take D4 from XXX date to XXX date."

What are your GAL activities?

And have you read DB or DR? You need to look deep down in yourself, and ask yourself what *you* contributed to the breakdown in this M. What specific complaints did your H have? What behaviours can you change/what 180s can you do?

Me 28 / H 28
M 1 / T 2.5
BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more"
Still living together, separate rooms.