It was because a lot that I read on here said that basically you have to act as if you are moving on with your life. I haven;t beeged, pursued, inquired, etc. I've been very patient.
My actions have shown that with my 180s and GALs. I think I was okay with her possiblly finding it because I wanted her know that if need be, I would be okay in the end by her walking away --confident that I have tried everything for us and the boys.


M44, W38
S5,S3
Met - 09/07
Engaged - 2/08
Married - 11/08
New house - 10/13
Bomb dropped - 11/14
EA confirmed - 11/14
PA - strong suspicion
WAW Plastic surgeries - 12/14
WAW stopped wearing rings - 12/31/14