It was because a lot that I read on here said that basically you have to act as if you are moving on with your life. I haven;t beeged, pursued, inquired, etc. I've been very patient. My actions have shown that with my 180s and GALs. I think I was okay with her possiblly finding it because I wanted her know that if need be, I would be okay in the end by her walking away --confident that I have tried everything for us and the boys.
M44, W38 S5,S3 Met - 09/07 Engaged - 2/08 Married - 11/08 New house - 10/13 Bomb dropped - 11/14 EA confirmed - 11/14 PA - strong suspicion WAW Plastic surgeries - 12/14 WAW stopped wearing rings - 12/31/14