thanks for clarifying.

Even though our house is jointly owned it doesnt feel like mine anymore. And certainly not the bedroom as im on the couch. I know what you mean about not bearing to be there. hopefully ill be gone soon. It will be hard on our daughter but i have to remember this is not what i chose. This is my wifes decision. My decision to move is so to cause as least upset as possible to our daughter.
I recently restored a relationship with my dad 30 years after he and my mum divorced very badly. I didnt see him for a very long time. I now feel closer to him than my mum. The truth has a funny way of coming out eventually and what i was told for many years by my mum and her family is only one side. Growing up i never realised this.


Me:40 W:35
D:8
T:13 M:10
WAW: 7/14
PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months
Moved out and moved on