Hey Pink, sorry you had to go through that. Much like Toots already said, do you know for sure that both of them used it that night? And does H have his own personal account he could have used? Although you already know that they are having a PA, I would still probably say something because it is entirely inappropriate to use your joint account for a hotel room on them...like Toots said, set a boundary.
Personally Id confront him about it, and say something like "H, what you choose to do with OW is your choice. But it is completely disrespectful to me and inappropriate for you to use our joint account for a hotel room for the two of you. I will not tolerate this." The words need some massaging but i think you get the gist of it...i wouldn't blow up at him because thats not going to do any good. Sorry you had to see that =/ hope you have a better day.
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ME: 28 W: 24 M: 2.5yrs T: 5yrs BD: 22 SEP 14 W Leaves: 5 OCT 14
