wife during deployment EA/PA another service membe

[Train]

Stay true to you, and expect her spew.

She knows you still love her and want her home. She will use that knowledge to try to manipulate your actions and decisions. She wants to make you feel guilty so you stay out of her way. She also wants justification for continuing her A. It makes it easier for her to be angry with you.

Remember, though, she will continue her A - no matter what - until SHE decides to end it. And she will find justification in ANYTHING she wants. Elephants in a three-ring circus, even.

Stay strong.