WAW returned from her awards night just now, for which I had taken a day off to be with the kids, and we had a discussion in which she became a little heated.
She said she was going out this evening to the theatre. I asked who with and she said her ex boss. I asked if this was the same person who she went out with the other week to which she said yes. I asked what's going on and she said they're dating.
I reminded her that she is married and she reminded me that 8 months ago she said it was over for her. It had run its course. I countered that our wedding vows include the phrase for better or worse and asked why she didn't think there was anything we could do she said she had tried and it had died before then which was why we hadn't had intimate relations for goodness knows how long.
She said again I should not hold out any hope, it over. There is no hope. I said I do have hope but it's the expectation that she gets me. I said I don't think you've treated me fairly, given me a chance. She reminded me that we went to MC a few years ago. I can't remember what I said but it was just talk not SBT.
She is frustrated and hates seeing me hurt but said I need to move on. We are just co-parenting now as far as she is concerned. I was fairly calm, didn't raise my voice at all even when she did although it didn't escalate to shouting.
Well at least it's become a bit clearer now. And I actually don't feel so low about it because it's what I expected. So what I need to do now is forget about her, GAL, look at our finances and sell the house.
Try not to be bitter in the face of such intransigence.
I've just lined up an interview for this afternoon as well if the fella gets back from a meeting in time. I don't know if I'd want it after this though. Perhaps I should just move down to where my job is and stay with my mum when I come back to see the boys.
Oh no, tears :-(
Last edited by Old Dog; 01/30/1502:23 PM.
M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
