Do you think it would be a useful book for us ladies to read? e.g. would it help us do things differently so that H might behave differently in response? Would it be a good read for a WAH? (not saying I'll give it to him, just maybe make the recommendation if the moment came up)
Yes, it could be an interesting read for you, if you feel that your H might have been a people pleaser. I have also been thinking of my W's behavior as I read the book, noting that certain things also apply to her. I would not however recommend it to your H until you're deep into piecing. How would you feel if he recommended a book to you that would help explain your behavior?
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