Originally Posted By: jim0987
but i think there is a lot that can be taken from it both in terms of increasing our understanding and by looking to say 'Do i do that?'



This.

The open mind then says ok, is that right and if not what can I do differently where the book is useful. If not you get the Nah not me.

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