Ganb8te, Personally I think yes it would but then i'm as interested in trying to figure out what has been going on in my W's head as I am in mine (more success with mine but thats not perfect)

Although its written gender specifically i think a lot of the ideas (covert contracts as an example) are gender neutral. I would be hestitant to read it from the perspective of trying to 'diagnose' our WAS' but i think there is a lot that can be taken from it both in terms of increasing our understanding and by looking to say 'Do i do that?'


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress