Gg - I wont comment too much on your H's behaviour, I think you know how I feel about that kind of - no other words - spousal abuse, no one should ever belittle or have their partner feel threatened, ever, no excuses. Even if its misinterprited (and from what you've said I dont think theres any misunderstandings there it wasnt) its supposed to be a loving relationship and I have no idea what goes through peoples minds who behave that way man or woman (and yes I know men whove been on the receiving end as well).

Very different from control alone, thats sometimes a security / overcaring situation. Neither are good but at least the latter can be understood even if its not be encouraged.

We are all unfinished projects, otherwise we stagnate something I figured out about myself as I'd done exactly that for 5 years.

You will do great Gg, anyone who doesnt want to spend time with you? Thats their loss.

Anyway get some Zzzzzz catch you tomorrow.

Last edited by edz; 01/30/15 01:04 PM.

M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015