Hi Susana -

I've been reading your posts and your story is similar to mine. I've started sleeping in a different bedroom since yesterday. I am cutting back from being a 'good friend' and asking how her day was and going out to dinners etc. She wasn't reciprocating and told me that she is emotionally no longer married for a while now.

We went to couples therapist for one last time and talked about how seperation is going to work. I cried my guts out in that meeting. I was never hurt this bad and she showed no emotion.

For my own sake i know I need to move on at some point. I am dreading the upcoming weekend because I don't know what to do with my time any more. I did to go a young professionals party yesterday and met some cool people though.


I am 32 / W 31
M 5 years / Known each other for 7
Bomb Dropped - Jan 12, 2015
separate bed rooms Jan 29