I really have no idea how I would (will) approach this either. But let's just bring it into perspective for a sec. It's COFFEE. I think you are perfectly entitled - given the current situation - to have a coffee with someone. Call it a date if you want to, but why put the pressure on yourself?

H is still off seeing where OW leads - 15 months later. If he turns around and calls you out on having COFFEE with someone (and I don't think he will) then that says something, no?

The only person you have to meet expectations of right now is YOU. What can you live with Gg? What do you want? Figure that our first and then make it happen.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014