So, I was just checking my bank account and found out that there is a charge for a Embassy Suites Hotel. Called and my H is there with his affair. I feel like going there and finishing this stupid situation that he is doing.
I am so offended, he is doing this all under my nose and I am just nice and pretending that nothing is happening.
If anyone has an opinion, maybe it can change my mind.
It's the joint account. That's our family account. H is busy w/ the bit** and he does not have time to change anything, to clean his situation with me.
I want to go there and meet with this woman and stop this big party that is right under my nose. I just don't think I need to leave it is so easy for him.
If you havent then i think you need to sort out your own bank account. Does H have his own account?
You've only got a few days until he goes away and then you can use that time to figure out your exact plan. Its rubbish but careful considered steps is probably better than a reaction at this point.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
Sorry Pink nothing really to add over what Jim & Gg said, I'm still running on our joint account at the mo but in my case its connected to waiting for the bank to get a high enough od sorted out on an account in my name before I tx everything over.
Hang in there (((Pink)))
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
Hi Pink. Always on your side but are you sure that H is with OW ? If you are I am so sorry that he feels he can act this way ? It's total disrespect and you don't deserve it I would not go down there if you know OW is there What will you achieve?
Give yourself time and think about what you are going to do.
Thinking of you and sending positive thoughts. Take extra care. Rd
nothing really to add over what Jim & Gg said, I'm still running on our joint account at the mo but in my case its connected to waiting for the bank to get a high enough od sorted out on an account in my name before I tx everything over.