Thanks 123gwen....I have posted more on my newcomers thread.
Yes...I feel like I back slid a bit because of his efforts to get closer to me to only to then start up with someone else. I have too much self respect to continue to allow him to go from woman to woman while we are still married. Choices bring consequences.
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.