Surving the rollercoster

[Mom22]

Its a horrible situation for your SD. Icome from a divorced family and know that its better to be loved and cared for by 1 parent (or S parent or gran) then live with someone who doesnt care. Its horrible. But you cant change it. You can not change his behaviour towards SD. All you can do is be there for her. She will have to live with the scars and he with the regret. Tho it might not come until his deathbed.
If he doesnt show signs of paying you, enforce it through court and get a debt collector.

I m praying for you and your SD!