Strong EA after 2yrs M - trying to detach. #3

[Complex]

The inevitable just happened.
My W started an argument. I stayed as calm as possible but I told her I do not respect what she's doing and neither do I that she's lying. She got very very offended. In the heat she seemed to throw everything at me.

I'd say she spoke the truth: OM is out of the pic, since 2 weeks. She 100% values that she would never hook up with anyone while being married. Her love for OM is lost, he is immature, doesn't want to commit neither would she want that right now.
She can NOT be talked to. She is completely out of control. I had to leave, she talks to me in a disrespectful way that I can not accept.


But now the D is basically on the table. This [censored].
Now she wants to talk about the living situation and finances and everything.
I told her I'm not going to talk about this right now. She keeps pushing and pushing. It's very hard.
I urged her to please sleep over it and we discuss everything after we had a nights rest.

This just got intense, but it's not me. Funnily she thinks it's not her either.
So I left the house.