I'm glad you came to give us an update, KGirl. I'm always concerned that the people I follow closely will just vanish. And yes, it felt like more than a week to me too.
Oh my, it's really not a good time for you to get all of these things on your schedule. Plus, it's all emotional stuff and you're probably at a time where you feel distracted or even weakened by what you're going through.
I really like Maybell's advice. I have two more.
1) Stop wondering what's the best thing to do now. Be happy you're doing anything. I don't know why, but reading this once made me very productive.